SEX & HEALTH: SEX IN THE CITY
Like I stated in The White Man versus The Asian Man, I’ve had my share of dating experience; good, bad, ugly, infected (black and Asian)..you name it. I’ll address the stereotypes, truths and my own plain experiences.
Black Man Stereotypes – Criminals/drug dealers, Alpha male, uneducated, Sexual prowlers, All desire to sleep with white women, Lazy, athletic skills, large penis, angry, hustlers.
Asian Man Stereotypes – Lack confidence in talking to women, angry, small penises, smart, short, bottom of the barrel, proper, boring, well mannered, think they own Asian women.
In MY DATING New York City experience:
Black Man –
Cons: think they own all women of color, think they are king, treat women like an object, rude, feel like a number, very sensitive when it comes to respect and racePros: entertaining, exciting, adventurous, well dressed.
Asian Man -
Cons: lacking in confidence while talking to me, boringPros: Proper, respectful, focused, express their feelings on how much they like me on a date
Expect to feel like you rode a horse across the Grand Canyon for a weekend. Assless chaps anyone?
Let me elaborate:
Black Man dating experience:
I’ve been on dates with two different black men since I’ve been in New York City. Both of them I met through work related functions. Remember, I’m in the finance industry. Yeah I still have a job. Both had everything going for them, good looking, educated, charming and had money.While, they were both professional and wined and dined me, I still felt like I was being played to some degree. To this day, I could not put my finger on it. Basically, they were juggling other professional women, me included.
In da clubs:
Black men I have met in clubs are a completely different story. I was introduced to a former NBA Basketball Player at Marquee in New York City through a mutual friend. As we shook hands to say hello, he took my hand and put it down his pants. Ya hum. Totally not joking.
Sometimes I think certain rappers have hurt the reputation of black men. It’s easy to pick up an arrogant, chauvinist, entitled persona based off successful, black men in media today. Although having Obama as President has given black men a more respectable ideal. I hope his gentlemen treatment of Michelle rubs off on these men.
Black Man bedroom experience:
Anal, anal, anal..expect them to want it right away too.. And they last forever.. expect to feel like you rode a horse across the Grand Canyon for a weekend. Assless chaps anyone? They are definitely adventurous in bed, but not similar to the white men. Expect being thrown around like a rag doll in different directions among different positions. This could also stem from a fetish, but like white men, I’m usually not with them long enough to figure it out. Please take note, that I did not mention penis size in my last column, since comparisons are very similar, but in THIS column, I must point out that the Asian man can't compete. It’s huge! Like big ass pipe huge!Asian Men dating experience:
I’ve found that dating Asian men over the years has been slowly changing. I’ve noticed more confidence in each new Asian man I hang out with. Dating an Asian man is comforting, warm and secure.Also, Asian men think I’m their property and that it should be a given that I will go out with them, whether or not I’m attracted to them. They are much more respectful on a date than a white man. They talk about other things besides sex. They are aggressive in their pursuit for a next date. They have a lot to offer financially.
Asian Man bedroom experience:
The "Asian small penis size" stereotype is just that, a stereotype. It’s not true as I explained above. The body hair is great, minimal.None of these dates have led to serious relationships. I’m still single! I know what I want. I know how I want to be treated. I must come across as any easy piece of ass? Or dating men in New York City are just looking for an easy piece of ass? Dating in New York City has its own issues.
Black men are not greater than Asian Men, and Asian Men are not greater than Black men. I would definitely recommend a romp in the hay with a black man for every woman! I wanted to share my opinions as an equal opportunity, serial dater in NYC.
Feel free to crucify me below or you can always email me at nancy@asiancemagazine.com
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Nov 17, 2011 @ 06:43 am Anonymous (not verified) said: Here is just one link of many on the internet that cite that there are more black men in prison than white, and this source has a much larger ratio: http://www.infoplease.com/ipa/A0881455.html I'm sorry that the facts offend certain people, but please don't be so blind as to actually IGNORE the statistics. My white boyfriend was married to a black woman before (she is so angry that he is with a white girl now) and he warned me about the hyper-sensitivity of African Americans to anything that even sounds like it might be racism. It wasn't racism, it was a fact. And any time casual sex is mentioned the threat of HIV/AIDS is mentioned also. This is reinforced by the fact that the commenter wrote: "Think of your future and think of your future kids before you sleep around." Jeeeez, watch some South Park and relax! |
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Nov 18, 2011 @ 11:31 am leisha2010 said: before i say what i feel i need to say, i just want to say this comment is directed at the white racist a**holes out there who seem to have convinced themselves that their race is better and perfect than any other just because they are the race that they are. so if you know you are not a racist then you shouldn't have any need to take offense to my words. all that i will say is truth and if you have a problem with the truth, then maybe you just might have racist tendencies and if you do, well that is your problem and something you need to deal with. i am SO SICK AND TIRED of you people telling the world about how many more black men are in the prison system than white men. BIG FRICKEN DEAL! so what. the point is, there are STILL white men in the prison system too. just because there are more of one race doing something it does not mean that race, as a whole, is the worst race of all. and just because there is less of another race doing something, that they are all goody-two-shoes. i mean cmon, many in history who isn't white, knows the evil crap the racist white man and woman has done to other races on this earth (including the united states) but yet you really don't hear about it because the racist white man controls the media and they make sure to always show themselves as best of all and blacks or other races as worst. this is nothing new to us. we all know the racist white man and woman's game. in fact, we all know the white man and woman far better than they know us. we all know the truth already. the racist white man and woman accuses black people of playing the race card when its your racist ancestors, who are the founders of it. this country was founded on racism. the white man has been playing the race card ever since they committed the sin/crime of kidnapping a black people from their native lands centuries ago. and, yes, we all know about SOME black natives of afrika helping them with the kidnappings, in case one of you white goons happen to reply and bring that up. you always do after all, to try to justify to yourselves that you weren't the only ones to do it or that it wasn't all THAT bad; to make it appear less evil what your ancestors did. the MAJORITY of the 99% of kidnappings were done by the white man all by himself. and even after slavery, supposedly, ended, they STILL treated black people like crap. READ YOU F**KING HISTORY! the racist white man and woman are ALWAYS trying to find every thing bad or wrong with every other race but themselves. you act like when God create you, He made you all pure and goody-goody. you know damn well your race has a history of evil-doing, just like all races do, but you never openly admit it. you believe yourselves to be all perfect. but what you really are, are arrogant, cocky, liars, deceivers, and hypocrites. so it should not be any surprise that you might find more black males in the prison system. i know there are MANY black men, throughout history in this country and world, who has committed crimes solely by their own choice and they deserve(d) to be imprisoned but no one but God will ever convince me that the white man and woman has never played any part in locking the black man up in the prison system when they KNEW/KNOW of his innocence. what happened to nelson mandela is the perfect example and the same happens and has happened to black men in these here united states as well. you have always kept them down and from prospering. READ YOU F**KING HISTORY!!! america has forever been a racist society not because of the blacks or native americans or asians or non-white hispanics or any other non-white race who lives or has lived here. america (the u.s.a) is racist solely because of the arrogant, racist WHITE MAN and WOMAN. they are the originators of racism in america and they know it. its those who are alive and breathing now and it was your ancestors who are long dead. nothing's changed. so don't come on here b**ching about more blacks in the prison system than your lilly-white people. you are NOT better or best compared to blacks or any other race. you never were. you just assume that your kind is when, in fact, none of us are. there is good and evil in EVERY race. no race is better than all the rest and you will find that out soon enough when God sends Jesus The Christ back down here from the clouds to straighten out all this crap we humans do to each other. and i don't care if you don't believe in God or not. that's your pathetic problem if you don't. white people are STILL sinners and do JUST AS MUCH evil on this earth as all the other races. so get off your bloody high pedestal about comparing blacks to whites where crime and wrongdoing goes because in God's Eyes we all are sinners and just because there is more of one race in the prison system it doesn't mean the other races still don't do wrong. because, Lord have mercy, the white race is the LAST race to be comparing themselves as better than other races. |





























As a non-Asian, non-white, non-black male with an Asian fetish, after reading Nancy Lee's article, I am now completely cured of said Asian fetish. A complete boner-killer! I will now avoid Asian women in my private life like the plague.