Nov 23, 2010 @ 11:28 am Marisa Sung
Signs That A Man Wants You
Whether a man admits it or not these are the tell tale signs that a man is DEFINITELY ATTRACTED TO YOU PHYSICALLY AND INTELLECTUALLY--EMOTIONALLY IS ANOTHER STORY AND THE DEEPEST AND FINAL LEVEL OF ATTRACTION--USUALLY LEADING TO THE ALTAR.
I LEARNED ALL OF THIS IN DRAMA CLASS--IN OTHER WORDS NO ONE AND I MEAN NO ONE CAN FOOL ME!!!!
Sign #1 - Watch His Eyes.
Whenever you meet a guy for the first
time, watch his eyes.
More specifically, watch his eyebrows --
do they stay put, or do they flutter
upwards for the briefest of moments?
Men raise their eyebrows to enlarge
their eyes, both making them more
attractive and letting them give you a
better look. It's an instant,
dead-give-away indication that, yup,
there's something about you, girl!
The "eyebrows" thing also applies to
when you're already well into a
conversation with a guy. When you notice
his eyebrows unusually higher than their
normal level, then it's a sign that he's
paying attention to every little thing
It also means he's looking for every
little opportunity to make you like him.
So if he's talking to you with wide
eyes, congratulations. He's definitely
interested in you!
Sign #2 - Is He Touching His Face?
Besides the eyebrows thing, the skin on their faces also feel more sensitive to the touch whenever
they're with a woman they're attracted
This is especially true with their lips.
So pay close attention to them!
When they're with a woman they're
attracted to, the blood vessels on their
faces dilate, making them more
sensitive. For some reason, this
sensitivity is particularly intense at
the lips area.
So if you see him touching his lips a
lot, or taking more drags on his
cigarette, or taking more sips of his
drink... then you know you're on the
Sign #3 - Is Everything Erect?
As I was saying... whenever you're with
a guy you've just met, check his
posture. Is he stiffening up, or
assuming a position that makes his
muscles look bigger? Does he ask you to notice or feel his muscle(s)?
Does he have his
hands at his hips, as though giving off
a manly, confident aura?
There's a reason why men like to look
tough, even when they're really teddy
bears at heart. It's -- as you might
have guessed -- yet ANOTHER "Mother
The reason we're attracted to the
bigger, stronger, more confident single
men out there is simply because Mother
Nature wants the human race to survive.
And the best way for that to happen is
when the next generation has strong
parents to look after it.
Just like male peacocks spreading their
tail feathers to impress the females,
HUMAN males try to stand up, puff out
their chests, and try to look tall and
So when you meet a new guy, and
everything about him seems, um, erect,
then you can be sure he likes you.
Just make sure you're looking ABOVE the
belt, mind you -- if he's erect in other
places, then he probably just wants to
get into your pants. (Hint: Not good.)
Most men can't help themselves, poor things.
Sign #4 - Watch His Hands.
Another sign to watch out for is his
hands -- or, more specifically, what he
does with them.
There are two parts to this hidden sign,
first, watch what he
does with himself with his hands. Does
he keep them neatly in one place (such
as clasped over his belly, or on the
rests of his armchair) the whole time?
Or does he fidget with them, fixing his
tie, adjusting his collar, unbuttoning
(and re-buttoning) his shirt, adjusting
his socks, or smoothing his hair?
The signs should be obvious enough, but
most women don't notice these little
hand gestures. Some of us even
mistakenly think fidgety hands are a
sign of uncertainty in a guy.
Sure, but he's uncertain for all the
right reasons. He's fixing himself to
look as GOOD as he possibly can... for
And, of course, that means he obviously
wants you to like him. And if you're
feeling quite attracted to him too,
here's a very simple way to "nudge"
things in the right direction.
Just tell him: "You look very handsome today."
It's going to get rid of the initial
"Blah" that most first conversations
usually have, and if you follow up with
"Oh, I'm just messing with you," it's
going to make him think about you long
after you've swapped numbers and said
Sign #5 - When He Lends You His Jacket.
I know the dating game is getting more
and more modern as time goes by. But for
some reason, some old-fashioned charm
and chivalry never fails to win a place
in the hearts of women everywhere.
Case in point? When a guy lends you his
jacket when you're freezing to death.
A guy normally doesn't give his jacket
to women he doesn't like. When he cares
enough about you to notice that you're
feeling a bit chilly, he won't wait for
you to ask -- he'll give you his jacket
and wrap it around your shoulders.
I think it's for three purposes. One, it obviously keeps her
warm. Two, it gives the message that he'd
like her to belong to him. And three...
it gives him a reason to stick around a
little longer, because he's just lending
her his jacket, not GIVING it to her.
Well, this is my Thanksgiving Gift to all of you less experienced ladies out there. You can all thank me later. Good luck!