Luckily the newer generations of asians could care less; asian girls/guys dating all kinds of people.

Asian guys need to learn how to kick ass.
When people try to punk me, I take the fight to them in a very public way. Not only do I kick their ass, I also do it so that others can see the consequences of trying to bully a short Asian man like me. It's fun to see bullies squirm and then run when I take the fight to them.
By kicking people's asses, I live a quiet peaceful life. However, things are not peaceful for me in the bedroom. I've been with women of various colors. Real women date and marry men who will protect the family and build a good life.
If anything, I have to kick more ass. My weakness is that I let beautiful women punk me. I will soon get to the point where a hot chick that punks me becomes somebody else's ex girlfriend.

OMFG! I get this a lot. I tend to date asian men (I'm white, french to be specific) and when a white guy tries to hit on me, and I go for his asian friend, I get the nasty question "Oh you your afraid of big dick huh?" and his asian guy friend will just stand there and laugh, like it is no big deal at all. I get so upset. It drives me up the wall! It's like! Why the hell are you so jelous?! I don't find myself attracted to you! If an asian girl went for you, would you want her white friend dissing her "stretched V-jayjay" because she only likes white guys? It is honestly who you are attracted to.

Frederick Douglas onces said, "without struggle there's no progress." I agree absolutely, history tends to repeat itself, whether the intentions are for good or for evil. What gets me (as an asian male myself) frustrated is when there are asian women that LIKE to talk negative or criticize about asian men. That sort of reminds me of the theory that Adolf Hitler believed his dad had Jewish ancestry and felt a deep hatred toward the Jews (since he was beaten by his dad), which is so screwed up!

ATTENTION ASIAPHILES!!!
Read below:
I was once like yourself, but I cannot cure you. It takes a person training their own mind in order to change your preference.
Instead, I will help you another way.
Here is a list of tips on how to HIDE your asiaphilia from an asian woman you are attempting to court:
1. Wear sunglasses.
The main way asian women can tell a man is an asiaphile by the look in his eyes, and a person can tell a lot about a person just by looking in the other persons eyes (their mood, their attitude, etc.)
2. Make sure you are hygienic.
This is a given for in any situation with a woman. Asiaphiles as asians call you, and once called me, are identified by a certain disgusting thing about them. A lot of asians have made the observation that a lot of asiaphiles dont shower, and some dont shave, and some dont do either. Make sure you are shaven and showered in the mornings. Make sure to get those hair cuts every now and then.
3. Work on your social skills.
Social awkwardness can come off bad. In fact, it almost always does. Make sure you are not nervous when talking to one. Try not to stutter, or say "um" too much.
4. Talk to her like any woman of your own race.
Not all of them are foreighn, so dont try to talk to them in some random asian language. And dont speak slowly either.
When attempting to make conversation, dont ask her where she is from, or about her culture, and dont talk endlessly about how great you think asian culture is. Talk to her like a woman of your own race.
5. Dont be racist.
This should be a given, but dont talk about asian steotypes, or make fun of asians, or say that asian men are inferior to her face. try to be racially sensitive.If you seem racist, then she may suspect you are an asiaphile.
6. Respect her like any other woman of your own race.
If you have nor respect for women, then I cant help you.

Being an Asian woman living in an area with a small Asian population, I have to agree that I've met many Asian women who do prefer to surround themselves with white people. The occasional case is that they only like blacks or hispanics, but the big issue is with the women who only like whites and most times, it's to fit in, to feel less Asian, etc. etc. I've heard this many times and mainly from women who look more "stereotypically Asian," like small eyes, thin bodies, super high cheekbones, etc. I really think that's an issue. It's one thing to like someone for who they are, but some of these women were friends and they were taken advantage of and were so easy for the white guys who would later just dump them when they were through. And I have to say that it happens to be the case that many of the women who do date white men are submissive, although I've met a few who are spitfires. They also want mixed babies so they can be models. Mixed babies are just like everyone else. Some are cute, some are ugly, most are just normal.

I think people experience it everywhere and it's harder for Americans to understand being a mixed culture and all. I'm Lao, my fiance is Korean, and we experience the same questions. Like 'why aren't you dating a Korean girl,' or 'What, you don't think a Lao boy is good enough for you?' The truth is, I prefer Asian men and think the Lao men I know are sexy and he's very much attracted to Korean women, but that doesn't mean we can't be in love. Preserving culture is very important, but I think the ones who are not confident in their own ethinicity/heritage/sterotypes are the ones who don't care for preservation.

As an Asian guy, I don't really care who ever Asian girls date. it is none of my business. It is my business when they starting spewing stereotypes about Asian people.

It seems many of them are ashamed to be Asian. It is just sad. I for one think that preserving culture is a worth while goal.

After all you are Asian and when push comes to shove, in the eyes of everyone - you are Asian and that come with all the stereotypes that society put on us. Sadly, many Asians rather turn a blind eye to it and blend in rather than face the music together